At some point in your life your going to want to have a great woman in it. Not a bunch of women just one really great woman. That one woman that allows you stop waisting your time dating and can allow you to focus on the other great things in your life. So without further ado I’m going to give you a five step plan that will help you find and get that girlfriend.

Step 1: What Do You Want From A Relationship?

Its very important for you to know what it is that you want from a relationship. Are you a guy that needs his space? Are you guy who wants a woman that takes an active role in his life? How will this relationship effect your lifestyle? If a woman doesn’t meet your relationship needs then she is a woman that wont make a good girlfriend.

Step 2: What Kind Of Woman Do You Want?

Sexual interest and relationship interest are two different things. When you are looking for a long-term relationship you have to know what sort of woman you want. For short-term flings you don’t worry about allot of the little things.

Figure out what sort of qualities you like and want from a woman. What sort of behavior are you willing to tolerate? How does she treat her family? How will she treat your family? Write down behavior that you like and behavior you don’t like. If she has to many under things you don’t like then let that woman go.

Step 3: Where Can I Meet Her?

Just about anywhere. However, some places are better then others. If you hate party girls then don’t bother going to bars. If you like dancing then taking dancing lessons will be great. If you like outdoorsy type women then get outside. If you prefer to meet women in the day then go to the mall. Basically, you want to go to places that make it easy for you to meet women. You don’t have to go to tall the normal places.

Step 4: How Do I Approach Her?

This should be a piece of cake. If you like art, and you like women who like art, then what should you say to her? Something like, what do you think of that painting? Right! You simply start a conversation with her at an art gallery by talking about art. This makes the conversation very easy for both of you.

Step 5: How Do I Get Her Contact Information?

You can get her number fairly quickly if you want to. However, I recommend that you try to keep the conversation going for awhile. This pays off later when you are trying to make plans with her. In short it helps reduce flaks. You can try something like this. “I want to see you again. Put your number into my cell.”

Where To Go From Here

You really should date a number of women at the same time. By doing this you allow yourself the best chance to find the right one for a long-term relationship. This means you need to stay out there and meet more women. Yes it will get a little tiring, but it can also be allot of fun.