Does meeting with women seems like a WORK to you?

And do you ever feel despite all your hard work you’re not even closer to your goal?

If you agreed to those questions, then you may continue reading.

Honestly, going for a date can be quite frustrating.

Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.

Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she’s not returning or answering your calls.

Aside from the fact that as the guy you are the one that do everything in order to move things forward.

In your approach, you have to have the courage.

First off, you need to keep you conversation moving, then you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number or much better you have to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.

Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.

(Don’t get me started on that…let’s just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are “pretty.”)

Being not “extroverted” by nature can be pretty exhausting.

…I just had a client who often complained of “extroversion fatigue.”

I used to struggle with that too that’s why I knew exactly what he meant.

Before I started to teach myself about pick-up, and then found myself being mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.

What I do is to have a sit and rest!

I am working hard than I was in my full time job instead of having some fun and relax in those situation. Now you see how strange it is.

I would go home and be absolutely DEAD

… from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!

Does that make any sense???

There you see the general dating fatigue. There’s an ups and downs in the emotions, results that is discouraging, in the hard work that I make just to get women to hang out with me or be in bed with me.

I feel I am working overtime just like a full time job!

The first time I got into this game I had force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I was a nerd, I admit that, and had pushed it to the extreme.)

But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration).

I am pushing myself just like an athletes that pushes themselves to the gym

I was working muscles I had never used before, or to be more precise, I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS.

If you can relate to any of this, then you are probably working too hard in your interactions with women.