One of the common fears men have is actually going out - alone. For some reason, many men equate being alone in a social situation with negative imagery - people thinking he is desperate, lonely or has no friends.

In actuality - hitting the bars and clubs by yourself can be a GREAT way to pick up women. For the men who can pull it off - it can really increase your pickup. I will tell you why

First - going out alone gets you over the notion that what other people think - matters. It doesn’t. If you want to be a confident alpha male - you have got to be able to overcome the “group mindset”. As a pack leader - YOU decide what the pack does, you do not follow.

Secondly, if you go out to meet women by yourself - you do not have to worry about your friends embarrassing you or trying to hit on the same beautiful women you want to hit on. You can go to the places you want to go to with no arguments and you can leave when, and with whom you choose.

The third, and possible most important reason, is that you can use your lone status to portray absolute confidence to the women you meet. Say you are talking to a hot chic at the bar, and she asks you who you are with. You say, “I’m alone” in an unapologetic, every-day kind of voice that shows her it’s your choice.

Now - these are great reasons that going out alone rules - but - you also have to LIVE the alpha male, cocky comedy way if you are going to pull this off and get the girl.

So - if you want to take this interaction to the next level, and REALLY peak her attraction when she asks who are you there with - you turn the question around. You say, “I’m here with you.” So she will giggle a little and say, “OK, really, who are you here with?” At which point you say to her, “Man, I only met you 60 seconds ago and already you’re trying to meet my friends? By the end of the week you’re going to be over at my mom’s house talking about our wedding. Slow down!”

Behind this little act, what you are showing her is that you are strong, confident, and NOT ruled by other people. AND - you are maybe just a LITTLE out of her “bracket” as far as status goes - she will have to work to get your interest. This is how cocky and funny works - using humor to be a “bad boy”, charming, funny, and keeping her on her toes which will in turn, keep her coming back for more.