What if I told you there are magic words you can use to get your ex back? I know it may be hard to believe, but trust me, I will show you a simple technique to get your ex back in touch with you in no time. I want to share this with you because this is what my users ask of me every time. So, lets get started on “get back with my ex”.

“How to get my ex back” will start with getting your ex to return your phone call, IM or text message. Remember, this can be done easily, but it’s just a simple formula and not a complete plan. You can learn more about that in our ebook. If you do this right, it will be the begining of a wonderfull get back together with your ex.

Let’s start whit What NOT to Say. These are the usual mistakes people make, so don’t fall for them. Before we get into the actual words, let’s go over what message almost NEVER works. and worse, Puts you in an AWFUL ‘psychological’ position.These usually fall into 2 categories.

PLEAD. You get in the phone for the 10th time in the day and say “hi, please, please call me, I need to talk to you. I’ve called all day and haven’t got an answer form you”. Of course you are not going to get an answer! With this kind of call, you are only going to get pity, and pity will not help you get your ex back.

The Emergency call: “Hi, I have an emergency and I need you. Please call me”. Your ex will know this is just a lie to get her/him to call you back, and maybe you will get a the call, but this dirty trick will only work once, and to your disadvantage at that. Liying doesn’t help, believe me.

These common approaches simply don’t work, or work opossed to what you want. If you really want your ex attention, there are methods much more effective. Let’s review a simple one.

Using curiosity and selft interest in your favor. The things humans can’t avoid are curiosity and self interest. This are powerful forces everybody reacts too. The big secret? combine the two and you will get a formula that works everytime!

Call your ex and say something like “Hello, it’s me. I just wanted to tell you that I really appreciate what you did for me. When you get the chance, give me a call so I can tell you personaly”. Can you see how this uses curiosity and self interest in one sweep? Your ex can’t resist calling you back! “What is it that I did?”, “Appreciates what?”, your ex will think. Also, it’s a positive message, so he/she will get in the phone for sure.

Now, prepare mentally for what you are going to say. What did your ex did right for you? Maybe it was some advice or a positive criticism that helped you. Maybe it was when you needed to talk with someone and she/he was there for you. Work on this so you can tell your ex about it. Just remember that you will get a call back and maybe a date, but this is just the beginning of getting your ex back. You need a plan.

Applying this thechnique, you will have your ex call you back, but you need a strategy to win her/him back. If not, this could do more bad than good. When you have a plan, what you do before, during and after you get them to call you back is even more important that just getting the call. So, this is the basic technique to get them to return a call, now get ready to create a plan to get your ex back.