by Vin DiCarlo

Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a “10″ kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.

But before anything else, let’s go waaaay back…

Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.

She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t look away)…

She was one of the popular kids, but was friendly to everyone.

We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).

I badly wanted to ask her to a senior prom but I chickened out at the last minute.

A few years later I realized she had a crush on me all senior year.

I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this seems a pretty common experience among them there was this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, and they missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…

Ah, the elusive “10,” the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.

I have a lot to say about so-called “10’s.” In one sense they are another “breed” of woman, but at the same time, it’s that kind of thinking that makes them so.

Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself.

First thing, the idea about “10″ is just a myth. There’s no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more “valuable” just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.

The only true “10″ is the one that’s perfect for you, a woman that turns you on, whom you have great chemistry with.

Subsequently, there are a lot of 10’s in the world, you just need to have the ability to meet a bunch of women, and make an options for yourself.

Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.

Why?

Because a lot of guys do that.

She knows what you’re about and sees you as shallow.

But there certainly a type of women that seems to have an another “level” beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.

You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.

Like I said, you shouldn’t treat them “differently.”

Let me clear this up.

You shouldn’t treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.

First of all, a woman is turn off for those men that chases her only for the looks alone.

She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.

Now for your own sake I’m going to give you a heads up.

There are two types of “10’s.”

High self esteem, and low self-esteem.

Low self esteem 10’s are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.

In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.

It may sound harsh but I call it like that.

These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.

Anything.

(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)

On the other hand, the high self-esteem 10’s women have had a taste of elite- they know early from the start that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they work hard to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.

They know that they can get closer to a great life than everyone else, and they are motivated to put a lot of hard work to attain that.

Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

In fact, most of beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t go to the club. They just spend their nights being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.

But here’s the good news. You will find these women the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.

The Attraction Code is about being a “male 10,” the best man you can be.

When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.

You’ll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they’re not on your level - it’s what I call the Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.

But you’ll be amazed to see the responds of the most beautiful and attractive women that warm right up to you as soon as you approach them - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”

The girl will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”

The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you’ll also enjoy plenty of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are lot of 10’s out there waiting for you.

Don’t waste you’re time waiting for nothing.

Vin

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