If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a 10, then I think you’ll find this letter very interesting.
But before anything else, let’s go waaaay back…
It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.
She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t stop my eyes looking)…
She was one of the popular kids, but was friendly to everyone.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom… but at the last minute I chickened out.
I realized after some few years that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this seems a pretty common experience among them there was this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, and they missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…
Ah, the elusive “10,” the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.
I have so many things to say about this so-called “10’s.” In one word they are women of another “breed,” but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.
Understanding the reality of the extremely beautiful women and understanding your own fascination for a perfect women will help you resolve this conundrum, and might even help you in finding your “perfect girl.”
First thing, the idea about “10″ is just a myth. There’s no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more “valuable” just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.
The only true “10″ is the one that’s perfect for you, a woman that turns you on, whom you have great chemistry with.
Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10’s, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.
It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.
Why?
Because every other guy does that.
The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.
But there certainly a type of women that seems to have an another “level” beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand this so that you will know how to treat these types of women.
Like I said, you shouldn’t treat them “differently.”
Let me clarify.
You shouldn’t treat a woman BETTER than the other women. But there are things that you need to know.
First, she don’t like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.
A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.
Now for the sake of yours, I”ll be giving you a heads up.
There are two types of “10’s.”
High self esteem, and low self-esteem.
The pretty common is the low self-esteem 10’s. Women here have a guilt complex. Because they are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention.
In fact, most of their lives they’ve probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.
May sound harsh but I call it like it is.
These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.
Anything.
(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)
Now high self-esteem 10’s are women that have had a taste of the elite -they realized early on that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they made an effort to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.
These women are motivated to put an extra effort because they know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else.
Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, the most beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
Another interesting thing is that these women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.
But here’s the good news. You will find these women the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a “male 10.”
When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you’ll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they’re not on your level.
But you’ll be amazed to see the responds of the most beautiful and attractive women that warm right up to you as soon as you approach them - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”
The woman will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you’ll also enjoy plenty of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are lot of 10’s out there waiting for you.
Don’t waste you’re time waiting for nothing.
Vin

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