This season is a great time to make goals to better yourself and your life. It is common for people to go on a diet, especially after eating so well during the holidays! Others may set goals to be more organized, improve at a certain talent, or finish their education. Some may resolve to better their relationship with their spouse. As a single woman, is it possible for you to do anything to improve your romantic life?

Of course! Believe it or not, finding your soul mate is not determined by chance, it is mostly up to you. Now granted, you cannot guarantee that your true love will be in your life by Valentines Day, but there are some things you can do to better your chances at finding the love of your life this year. Below are three goals you can make to improve your romantic life this year.

1. Discover More About Yourself

You are single. This is not a curse. Everyone is single at some time in their life. What matters is what you do with your time as a single person. You see, right now, you have complete control over your life. You choose where you go, what you become, and what you do with your time. This is the perfect time to decide what you want and who you want to become in your life. This is a great journey that is best to take while you are unattached.

2. Live the Real You

After you have decided where you are going and who you want to become, start working towards those dreams! You’ll be amazed at the joy that comes from developing yourself. This will also help you decipher what kind of guys will be best for who you really are. No more trying to impress men! By being true to yourself, you will naturally impress the ones who would be most compatible with you.

3. Find and Keep the Guy for You

Once you have become comfortable with who you are and where you are going in life, this next step is more clear. It is more obvious what Mr. Right will look like for you personally, and you will have a better idea of where to find him. Not only that, knowing who you are and what you want will enable to know whether the guys you date are potential long term partners or just more dead ends.

So, what is your New Year’s Resolution? Choose to make steps towards changing your love life for the better. You can do something to make it happen!