Relationships, especially marriages can be eroded over time by a spouse who is keeping an intimacy secret.

Can a marriage be ruined by emotional infidelity or “harmless flirtation”?

If a co-worker is flirting with you and you are sure nothing will ever be acted on, should you tell your spouse? Is it just a harmless action with no consequences?

What is emotional infidelity? A common definition says emotional infidelity occurs when an intense romantic bond occurs with a person other than the spouse. And how far can one go before their spouse is being cheated on?

What are the reasons you are keeping this information from your spouse? Is this the best course of action for both you and your partner?

What would your spouse say if you told them?

Is keeping this information to yourself helping to enhance your relationship? Ask yourself these deeper questions.

Being honest with yourself about what is acceptable within your relationship is important in respecting your significant other. Revealing your true intent to yourself is key to understanding whether or not you have a potential relationship issue. Don’t be afraid to shine light on your inner workings. If you transform your mind, you will transform yourself.