(continued from part 1)

There was about a couple of times that I did the peacocking. I did that to see if it worked because I heard that other guys were doing it.

When I went out I felt ridiculous and was totally incongruent with my personality.

Women pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man, as we all know.

I noticed that it was in my workout clothes or something really basic - like jeans and a tanktop that some of my best pickups occurred.

At the same time, I’d see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not respond well to this.

This make me think… that maybe this is not on how much the clothes cost or how flashy they are…

Maybe there’s something else aside from that.

There are two things going on. This two things must be manage or balance.

First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make her like you, you are toast.

Women will see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses if you look like you got dressed with the intention of getting their attention.

You shouldn’t have to look like a pick up artist.

To dress modestly and not put too much thought into it avails much.

However, you don’t want to look sloppy. You want to present yourself in the best way you can.

This comes back to self-expression.

You already have a sense what kind of man you are, what your “scene” is, what you think is cool.

Don’t change that.

Instead, cultivate it, with these simple tweaks.

This isn’t a rocket science. Wear colors that appeal to your skin tone and hair color. Go to an upscale men’s clothing store, and ask someone about this. Or look online.

Next, make sure your clothes are clean, and wrinkle free, and reasonably up-to-date. A woman should not have to worry about bringing you around her friends.

Most of all, be sure that your clothes fits well, they BRING OUT YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.

Square your shoulders and wear shirts that narrow your waist.

Put on a pants that make your legs look long and thin.

Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.

Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a nice haircut. Shave, or don’t, but figure out what looks great and take it all the way.

One other thing…

Accessories should adhere off you loosely, and have a look of a small decoration that says, “yeah, I can fuck.”

Use your intuition with this one. I don’t want to say too much because that’s a whole other topic.