You’ve broken up with your ex but since that day you’ve experienced nothing but regret. If she also had regrets about the break up, then winning her back would be much easier. But asking her outright may be too chancy, so perhaps a little subtlety is required here.

First, you should study the conditions that led to the break up. Were these circumstances extreme? If the troubles were over little things that ultimately blew up into something big, she’ll likely want to come back after some cooling off. It’s not so clear-cut if the break up were more hostile in nature and came about over more important issues. If this is your situation, then you’ll have to look for signals from your ex that she wants to come back.

1.) Is she having a lot of trouble adjusting? If so, then it implies that you’re still a important part of her life. For her, the break up is still causing pain.

2.) Does she wish to be friends with you? If so, you’re still a big part of her life that she can’t let go of. Being her friend is a very good place to be in. It keeps a channel of communication open. This can be used over time to win her back.

3.) Does she voice regret over her conduct during the breakup? This suggests a need to make things right.

4.) Does she tend to send compliments your way when you converse? Any compliment no matter how indirect is important.

5.) Is there anyone new in her life? If there’s been no relationships since the break up, maybe it’s too difficult to let go of the old times she had with you. Perhaps no one else can take your place.

6.) Has she kept open the lines of communication? Put differently, the two of you readily communicate back and forth.

7.) Are you learning anything from her body language? If there’s still a love interest, her eyebrows will slightly lift and her eyes will widen upon noting your presence. Another hopeful signal are dilated pupils. Other signs include quick hair adjustments and protracted eye contact.

8.) Another sign of her interest is mirroring. Mirroring are things like an unconscious imitation of your body language or of your mood. Rhythm, loudness and the tone of your speech can also be mirrored.

9.) Does she say the word “you” a good deal in her sentences? If so, she’s addressing you in the second person which is a more intimate way to communicate.

10) Is she still doing those small favors for you like she did in the past? If she wanted you out of her life, she just wouldn’t bother.

Hopefully some of these signs apply to your case. If so, your outlook is good.